Bleachers Gonna Bleach
I’ve always wondered why people get so up in arms about bleaching, bleachers, and the whole “chillaligans” (in my Joseline Hernandez voice). Case in point… As long as I’ve been aware of the oh-so...
View ArticleOwn Your Blessings
The other day on Twitter, I was scrolling through my timeline and read a tweet from someone who opined that when people make statements such as “I’m blessed”, it comes off like such people think they...
View ArticleHow to Deal with Life’s Pressures: Cook Them in Your Internal Pressure Cooker
One of the huge complexes that I had when I was a bit younger was the amount of time that I spent in College compared to my peers. To provide context, I got into Community College in September 2001,...
View ArticleFor Petty People Who Do Not Know How To Let Things Go
This one is for us.I’m one of those people who considers herself to be pretty self-aware. I know my strengths and I know my weaknesses in equal amounts. I try not to live in denial about who I am and...
View ArticleHow to Meet a Man 101: Slide up in his DMs
I have this male friend who has the best intentions in offering suggestions to get me snatched up and off the dating market. Some of his "award winning" advice that I have gotten in the past included...
View Article2016: My Year in Review
I started out the year in Aberdeen, Scotland. In my usual tradition, I went to church with my sister and enjoyed bringing in the new year with the good Lord Jesus. I don't know if I've mentioned this,...
View ArticlePackaging
My first real crash course in packaging was in 2012. I was in Nigeria that Christmas chilling with a friend and we decided to hit up a new bar that had just opened and was touted to be this cool and...
View ArticleKiss and Don't Tell
When a woman gets into sexual relations with a man. It can go a few ways:A. It will remain strictly between you two (your best girlfriend doesn’t count, hehe) and the man will lock up your business and...
View ArticleNigerian Men and Homophobia
In my experience of interacting of Nigerian men, I've discovered that one common ground that most (read: 100%) of them share is their views on gay men. I've polled both ends of the spectrum and found...
View ArticlePeeking In
Welllllll look who the cat DRAGGED in. It's funny because every time people asked whether I abandoned my blog, my instant response was always "NOPE...I just haven't had anything to say". This is...
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